And a fun fact regarding the previous post,
I never wanted to noble MissD, since she was not in my path of growth. But she was my next door province neighbor and I felt many times that I had to save her villages from herself, lol (I just can't stand when players max their villages, I feel sorry for the villages). Then she nobled a barb in my province, but she got me on a good mood day, normally I would just send some nobles to say hi. But I knew she was working with Trsid, so we had a nice chat and she ended up joining Kings. It was a proud moment for me when some weeks later her villages had been cat down. By the end of january we started playing together and we decided that we'd merge our accounts at some point and we'd focus on mine, since it was bigger. She was a super defensive player back then, but always listened and learnt fast.
At this point, she's able to invade a province and noble it all just as good as me. I might have some experience that she still lacks, but besides that she can do anything I can. My account is as much mine as it is hers by now and I'm honored to have her playing with me and proud to be part of her growth as a player.