Can guarantee I've spent way less than you think, certainly way less than Mr Emotional in the OP.
Bloodeagle mate, take a breath, I helped you plenty and only stopped when it was clear you were leading the entirety of DUR to its knees by being abusive to everyone around you. And that includes your fellow Tribe mates! Your attitude has been nothing but dogmatic and arrogant, and now that you find yourself alone you naturally blame others - well thats all part of your arrogance.
That you felt you needed to spend 8k Crowns to sink an emotionally charge nuke into me, damn that must sting seeing that and 4x nobles not return home.
The only thing I did against you was stop sending you my troops to fuel your rather long list of enemies. You used DUR as your own personal production camp, and your own personal hitting stick - and as soon as the people of DUR (yes thats right, we have souls too ya know?) started thinking hang on I didnt sign up to this shit, you started blaming Sledge and Pan for poaching.
Truth is, and I have never lied nor have a reason to, neither Sledge or Pan approached me.
I spoke to Sledge to get the truth behind your claims she was a liar - she wasnt.
First time I spoke to Pan was the same hour he extended an invite to me - he was drunk.
You continue to use your excuses to hide the fact you've done an extremely poor job at running a Tribe. And granted yes, you were manipulated by Wrexor given she was in your council of two, that sucks hard, but being puppeted as hard as you were only shows up your inability to "lead".
You put DUR in an impossible position, and I chose to leave that - thats my decision and I am fully within my rights to do that. I have no loyalty to you, you have done nothing for me. Call me a traitor all you want, I've not attacked you. The only ones I feel sorry for are the DUR members caught in the crossfire.
You cant demand loyalty, try earning it next time.